Can curiosity give more pleasure?
I’ve been hosting Wild Heart Experience monthly gatherings in Colorado this past year. Every month, we dive into the embodiment practices, tantric philosophies, and meditation concepts with innocent curiosity. At our weekend immersions, we dive even deeper and the result is a magical experience for ALL of the participants. You begin to see everything in NEW eyes and as this curiosity expands your capacity for pleasure to ANY experience grows. You can actually move beyond pleasure to bliss.
Today I ask you, How curious are you?
Without curiosity, we do what we know, and we know what we do. Want to enhance your sexual experiences? Become more curious. Approaching anything with curiosity we soften to what we know, what we think works, and what works. A simple shift to curiosity changes the patterns vs doing the same thing over and over. Curiosity is arousal of the mind to a more erotic state in which LIFE becomes an exploratory journey to be discovered.
An erotic or curious mind gets us out of our patterns so that we can FEEL more. Curiosity takes us out of this cycle. It takes us to the place of possibility, to a place of wonder, to what if, to what could, to hmmm, to oh my … It takes us deeper into our bodies, our minds, and our hearts. Curiosity grows us, challenges us, to go where we have never been before, to do things differently. And one of the gifts of Wild Heart Experience workshops and retreats.
Curiosity and arousal during sex?
Many of my clients are often interested in enhancing their sex life. Our sexuality is, indeed, an integral part of who we are. We are sexual beings that are designed for pleasure. Curiosity takes us beyond the goal. When sex is all about that goal it keeps us trapped in a pattern. We focus on what we need to do to get there, not what we’re feeling and experiencing at that moment. You approach life or sex with curiosity. The curiosity allows us to really FEEL the sensations and emotions as they arise in the present moment. The subtle layers to be explored.
Can curiosity enhance communication?
YES! A curious mind is an open mind where inanimate becomes animate. Curiosity deepens communication to a path of more authenticity. We have to talk about what we’d like to do, what we’re learning, and what the experiences show us, what did we feel, how did it work, what else can we do, if this was good how about that, this makes me think of, I’d like to… This communication leads to deeper intimacy and connection, to greater openness, to sharing feeling more. It’s healing and revealing in that it brings our insecurities to awareness. This is the path to authenticity. This is where we share ourselves and where we connect in a space of openness with our partners. To be curious in a relationship allows a person to go beyond judgment to a space of greater freedom. We begin to acknowledge things about ourselves we might not have before. And as we explore more, more opens, one thing leads to another, opens something else, takes us down a different path, reveals another aspect of something, shows us more of ourselves.
Such a simple thing, such a beautiful thing, such a powerful thing, curiosity. A curious mind is an erotic mind. We welcome you to or attend one of our workshops and retreats and experience it for yourself.
And so the journey begins…